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David J Feinberg

David J Feinberg
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Tips for Parenting Teenagers

September 6, 2012 3:16 am

There is an old school saying that parents grow as their kids grow up. Raising teenagers is perhaps the most difficult phase of a parent’s life. There is simply too much that happens all the time. There are too many factors that have to be considered. A teenager is likely to develop the most physically, mentally and emotionally in these years and when so many aspects develop together, it is bound to get complicated. Whether or not your teen is going off your preferred path for him or her, tackling every little aspect is still a major challenge.

Keep the following in mind when parenting your teenage son or daughter:

-Independence is of prime importance for teenagers. They have always been confided in your arms and it is time they would spread their wings to see life as they want to see it. Liberty is what you should be offering them. That is freedom with some restrictions. The restrictions should never appear to be overbearing as that could just lead to more troubles. Give them their space but let them know where to draw the line.

-Talking things out is the most advisable parenting tip. Regardless of what the situation is and how grave the problem may be at hand, talking always helps. Speak with your child about the risks of what he or she may be doing, show them what is right and what is not, prevent them from taking risky moves and try to create an understanding that is more than just communicating disciplinary teachings.

-Be welcoming of the world your teen is presently in. Not everything will be mutually agreeable, hence, try to win on the graver issues and let go on the minor ones. Drug addiction or bad company is a red sign, but playing an hour more on the computer or curling her silky straight hair does not pose any threat.

Parents who have troubled teenagers or those that have indulged in unacceptable habits and activities need not shy away from a teen treatment center, and opting for one sooner than later is the wisest decision you can make.

Source: Eagle Ranch Academy

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The Importance of Taking Home Inventories

September 5, 2012 3:16 am

How much do you like your widescreen plasma TV, ultra-fast computer, designer clothes, high-count Egyptian cotton sheets and tweaked out ride-on lawn mower? How would it change your life if you had to downgrade to a 24" TV, slower computer, discount retail clothes and linens, and a push mower?

If the unthinkable happened tomorrow and your home was severely damaged or destroyed in a fire or hurricane, you'd be understandably devastated. Once you got over the initial shock, you'd have to begin the long and difficult task of recovering or replacing everything that you lost.

If you don't have a home inventory, the chances are good that you will be doing some major downgrading.

Discovery One: You Have a lot More Responsibility Than You Think You Do

The first thing you're going to do is call the insurance company, who is going to ask for a detailed list and description of everything you lost and need to replace. All you need to do is provide the make, model and serial number of your electronics and appliances and substantial proof that your clothes were from Talbot's, your sheets were 600-count and your mower was a high-end John Deere. Easy, right?

Most people can't even remember where they bought many of their belongings, never mind the model and serial number. Receipts? What receipts? Appraisals? Lost in the fire. It's not unheard of to find people digging around in the soggy ashes of their once-home desperately looking for evidence to show insurance adjusters. If only they had been more proactive.

Discovery Two: You Don't Remember as Much as You Think

How big are your grandmother's heirloom pearls? How many are on the string? How long is the strand? Not sure? What about that pocket watch your great-grandfather brought here when he emigrated from Europe? Can you describe it in detail? When is the last time you really looked at it?

If they were stolen, could you describe them to the police? Do you have any pictures?

A comprehensive home inventory can help ensure that you have the right amount of insurance coverage, provide proof of ownership to your insurance company, maximize your insurance recovery payments, and improve your chances of recovering irreplaceable treasures if they're stolen.

A complete inventory, including photos, may be one of the most valuable investments for peace of mind anyone can make for themselves and their families. If something happens to damage homes and property, an inventory will eliminate the need to piece that information together in the aftermath.

A home inventory service can document and catalog all your possessions and requires no preparation. Services can be tailored to your needs and budget. You'll sleep better -- and enjoy relaxing in front of that widescreen TV much more -- knowing you're ready to maintain your family's quality of life if disaster strikes.

Source: www.FEMA.gov

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Tips on How to Avoid Common Locksmith Scams

September 5, 2012 3:16 am

There are several things that homeowners and drivers can do to ensure the locksmith they employ is legitimate so that they don’t fall prey to a scammer.

When a consumer calls a locksmith, the first thing to notice is how the call is answered. If the person answering the phone says something general such as "locksmith services," hang up. A legitimate locksmith will identify the name of their company. The reputable locksmith will discuss the services needed, provide a quote over the phone and will stand by the quote once the work is completed with a receipt showing all charges. Beware of the "too good to be true" low price scammers will offer - it usually is.

Also, check the yellow pages of the phone book. Local locksmiths will usually have an ad that contains information about services they offer, a local phone number/address, and professional organizations they belong to such as the Better Business Bureau or Associated Locksmiths of America. If there’s no ad, check for a listing that has a local address.

While doing research online, go to sites such as Angie’s List, Yelp and Service Magic. These sites offer real reviews by real people. Companies are not allowed to review themselves on these sites or buy advertising. Also, go to findalocksmith.com/search for listings in your area.

When ordering service from a locksmith, notice the vehicle they arrive in and how the locksmith is dressed. Scammers will arrive in unmarked vehicles and not in any kind of uniform. A reputable company will have clearly marked vehicles and uniforms with identification.

When it comes to finding a reputable locksmith, always remember these tips and trust your instincts.

Source: Pop-A-Lock

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Over-sharing in the Office: When More is Too Much

September 5, 2012 3:16 am

For a variety of reasons, people are sharing more in the workplace; sometimes over-sharing. For many, the office has become a second home and a new relationship. People want to make this relationship comfortable, and that means communicating and sharing personal information. But you can talk a relationship to death. For those who are over-sharing in the office, they may be putting their careers or jobs at risk.

There is a variety of contributing factors to this: People are becoming more comfortable airing personal details thanks to social media; younger generations suffer from an "overblown sense of self worth" and believe everything they do should be shared; people are searching for a sense of connection.

We seem to be doing an over-correction of transparency. Companies often used to foster secrecy but because of many cultural shifts, some people are showing complete transparency instead and as a result, it's lead to over-sharing.

Employees should consider how their proclivities will affect their relationships at work. In an effort to connect and be comfortable on the job, they may actually be doing more harm than good. Showing a little more caution about airing dirty laundry is always beneficial and workers are encouraged to ask themselves the following questions before becoming too vocal:

-Who's listening to me? Telling something to a close friend at work is different than broadcasting it to the office, or airing dirty laundry in earshot of a boss.

-Why am I sharing? Oftentimes people are motivated to over-share in order to get people to pay attention to them, not because they really want to share their story.

-Does what I'm sharing further my career? Drunken exploits, drug habits, relationship issues, and so forth can turn people off.

Over-sharing can have a detrimental effect on your professional future. Keep this in mind whenever you're in the office and really consider how your public discourse could affect your career.

Source: Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil

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Tips to Keep Your PC Clean and Quick

September 4, 2012 3:16 am

What you don't know can hurt you when it comes to what's hiding in your PC. From "naturally" occurring registry errors to more insidious threats like spyware, hidden problems can slow your computer performance to a crawl or even cause it to crash.

A little proactive maintenance, however, can go a long way toward preventing problems. Keeping your PC "clean" and running at its best is as simple as establishing a routine maintenance schedule and using the right kinds of software to address the most common problems.

Here are three key "cleaning" tasks that you should perform on a regular basis (at least once a week):

Run a registry cleaner

If your computer is slower now than when you first bought it, the problem may be registry errors. Installing and removing software, playing online games, application crashes and upgrades of software problems can all create "natural" errors in your PC's registry. They accumulate over time and the more errors you have, the higher the likelihood that you'll experience trouble.

Out spyware

Did you know that 61 percent of PCs have spyware on them? And of those infected, 92 percent of users didn't know spyware was present on their computers, according to a poll by AOL and the National Cyber-Security Alliance.

Spyware - software that gets installed on your computer without your knowledge or consent - is considered a serious security threat. Not only can spyware collect information about your Internet usage, it can install additional software, hijack your browser, change your computer settings and slow down your computer performance.

Scan for spyware daily if you are on the Internet often and download frequently. Many companies offer completely free anti-spyware software for download.

Be vigilant to viruses

With so many other computer threats cropping up, it may be easy to overlook virus protection. But viruses continue to be a major threat to computer security, costing consumers and companies billions of dollars worldwide each year to prevent virus transmission and clean up after infection.

The best defense is a good offense when it comes to computer viruses. Subscribe to virus protection software that provides constant updates since new viruses emerge and old ones evolve into new forms every day. Scan for new viruses at least once a week - more frequently if you are a heavy Internet user or receive large volumes of unsolicited email.

Source: www.liveinformed.com

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A Pet Owner's Guide to Disaster Preparedness

September 4, 2012 3:16 am

With hurricane season upon us, pet owners must be prepared on all levels - including being prepared to protect their pets. If you’re wondering what you can do to keep your pets from becoming victims of a disaster, these tips on disaster preparedness will help you keep your dog, cat or other animal safe should disaster strike.

1. Make sure your pet is microchipped and always wears a collar or harness with his microchip tag and town license tags.

2. Always keep your pet up to date on vaccinations.

3. If you need to evacuate, know where the nearest shelter is or have a designated evacuation site. If the shelter or site does not allow pets, have a pre-arranged place to bring your pet, such as a relative's home or pet-friendly motel.

4. Each pet should be in his own carrier clearly marked with all of his and your information. Even if your pets have shared a crate in the past, an emergency situation could stress them out and cause them to be more agitated than usual.

5. Prepare an Evacuation Kit including: photocopies of all veterinary records; copies of all registrations and proof of ownership; a two week supply of food and directions for feeding; a two-week supply of water; a can opener; emergency contact list including your vet and alternate vet, pet-friendly motel, relatives, local animal shelters, police, fire and Red Cross; medications including directions and name of pharmacy; leash and collar.

Take the time now to prepare an emergency kit for your pet in the event of a disaster.

Source: Royal Flush Havanese

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Tips on Handling Water Damage

September 4, 2012 3:16 am

If a home or office has experienced water damage, it is important to locate a water damage repair company that is well trained and has the equipment to completely dry the structure as quickly as possible.

Water damage is progressive and items that could be restored within the first 48 hours of the damage occurring may not be restored if emergency response is delayed. Although the homeowner might be tempted to use a shop vacuum or call a company that only has equipment to dry carpet, remember that water will wick up walls and travel under base molding and sill plates. It will penetrate through floor coverings into sub-floors, even causing water damage in rooms below.

In addition, if humidity inside the structure is not controlled, items that were not originally damaged could be damaged as a result of absorbing moisture from the air. Structures that are not dried out quickly and properly can become a food source for mold growth, which may require professional mold removal.
In the event of water damage, do the following:

• Stay calm!
• Turn off the breaker in the damaged area before unplugging or removing any electrical devices located on the wet carpet.
• Place aluminum foil under the legs of any furniture that’s in contact with wet carpet. This might help prevent furniture stains on the carpet.
• Lift draperies away from wet carpet.
• Pin up upholstered furniture skirts that may get wet.
• Remove books, shoes, paper goods, fabrics, potted plants, and other items, which may stain wet carpet.

Do not attempt the following:

• Don’t use a home vacuum, since electrical shock may result, as well as certain damage to the equipment itself.
• Don’t place newspaper in traffic areas to walk on, since newspaper ink transfers easily to wet carpet fibers and may result in permanent staining.
• Don’t walk on carpet any more than necessary. This will keep the damage from spreading to unaffected areas.

Source: Rainbow International

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3 Simple Steps to Improve Your Fuel-Efficiency

August 31, 2012 9:14 am

One-third of travel for the year takes place during summer and more than three-quarters of those trips are taken by automobile, truck or RV. As summer draws to a close, drivers are encouraged to continue following these three simple steps to improve their fuel-efficiency and reduce their carbon footprint.

Practicing EcoDriving produces the highest mileage from every single vehicle—regardless of size or age--and can reduce gas use and carbon emissions significantly by as much as 15 percent or more. Here are three easy EcoDriving tips that can help many consumers start driving green:

-Turn the engine off when waiting at a curb to save more than half a gallon of fuel for every hour that would have been spent idling.
-Tire pressure changes an average of one PSI for every 10 degrees Fahrenheit change in temperature, so maintaining proper tire pressure can improve gas mileage by about 3 percent. This can earn drivers a free tank of gas every year.
-Avoid rapid starts and stops. This is not only safe, but it can save more than $1 per gallon, according to the U.S. EPA, while improving fuel economy by up to 33 percent.

During summer driving months and even through the beginning of Fall, gas prices tend to rise, but green driving can always lessen the impact.

Source: EcoDrivingUSA

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3 Pitfalls to Avoid When Paying Your Kitchen & Bath Contractor

August 31, 2012 9:14 am

With the market gradually recovering, more homeowners are spending money on remodeling projects. If they are not careful, homeowners can end up paying more than they ever expected. Here are some valuable tips on how to avoid three of the most common pitfalls.

Pitfall #1: A homeowner makes a large deposit, then gets no work done.

This is one of the most common scams among unscrupulous contractors. They ask for a big deposit or to pay for all of the materials upfront, then the homeowner never hears from them again. To avoid this pitfall, homeowners should not pay for work or materials upfront and should avoid any large deposits.

In some states, it is against the law for contractors to ask for more than 10 percent or $1,000 (whichever is less) for a downpayment. They cannot legally ask for upfront payment for materials or work. The one exception is if the contractor is ordering customer-requested custom materials.

Pitfall #2: Suppliers or subcontractors come after the homeowner for payment.

Homeowners are responsible for suppliers and subcontractors who do not get paid on their job. They can even put a lien against the home where they did the work. To avoid this pitfall, there are several strategies a homeowner can use:

-Pay the supplier or subcontractor directly.
-Issue joint checks to the contractor and supplier/subcontractor.
-Get an unconditional lien release from suppliers/subcontractors.

Pitfall #3: Homeowner is liable for an injury on the job, including lost wages.

If the general contractor does not have valid insurance, the homeowner is liable for any injuries on the job. This includes paying lost wages, if someone gets hurt and cannot work for a period of time. To avoid this pitfall, check that the general contractor has valid liability and workman’s comp insurance.

Of course, the easiest way to avoid these and other potential pitfalls is to work with a reputable contractor who has a history of paying suppliers and subcontractors on time.

Source: Cornerstone Design & Remodel

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7 Positive Strategies for Managing Aggressive Behavior In Children

August 31, 2012 9:14 am

As the school year starts, teachers (and parents) may worry about how to handle a child who is having a "meltdown." Some children may fall in a puddle of tears and sob, while others yell and scream. What can be the hardest to handle is when a child becomes aggressive and hits, bites, shoves, throws things or kicks, possibly hurting themselves and others in a fit of anger or frustration.

Although aggressive behavior must be stopped, great harm can be done if an adult restrains an upset child in a way that is physically unsafe for the child or for the adult; acts worried or angry about the child being upset; or shames the child for losing control. Firm, kind, matter-of-fact adult intervention is necessary for everyone’s emotional and physical safety.

These seven intervention strategies may help you manage any aggressive behavior you may face in children:

1. Be prepared that children will sometimes have difficulty staying in charge of their behavior.
2. Identify and reduce causes of stress that trigger outbursts.
3. Teach children how to recognize and manage the feelings and actions that lead to unsafe behavior.
4. Create a plan for how to prevent and handle outbursts for every place the child might be.
5. As the adult in charge, understand and stay in charge of your own emotional triggers.
6. Be a powerful, respectful, adult leader when taking charge of an out-of-control child.
7. When you are caring for other people's children, make a plan ahead of time with the parents and/or your work supervisor about how to handle problems and what you are and are not authorized to do to manage outbursts and keep kids safe.

Children need to understand that all of their feelings are acceptable and normal, including anger. As adults, we can help our kids learn how to stay in charge of what they say and do even if they are feeling very angry or upset at that moment.

Source: Irene van der Zande, child safety education expert

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